Celebrating Valentine's Day used to consist of sentimental traditions such as exchanging cards, a heart shaped box of candy or flowers. Today it seems that no sooner have we rung in the New Year than ads appear encouraging us to buy increasingly expensive gifts for those we love to make sure they know how much we care about them. Although retailers want you to buy into this notion, you can win the heart of your special someone without taking out a loan.
Looking for a unique, and affordable, way to give something more original than a dozen roses, a gift of chocolates or an expensive dinner out. Here are some ideas for thoughtful gifts that will delight your Valentine and go easy on your wallet.
Make Valentines a week-long event
Start a week in advance by giving your sweetheart a single flower - such as a long-stemmed rose in a vase with a message about a special memory the two of you shared. Add another flower or two to the vase along with a different special memory every day for the next week. By the time Valentine's Day arrives, you'll have a beautiful vase filled with fresh flowers and - even more important - some precious memories.
Fix a special dinner at home
Take the time to find a great recipe, shop in advance and prepare for a leisurely evening. Then light some candles and turn on the romantic music. Rent a favorite romantic movie to add just the right touch to cap off the evening.
Make someone your "Secret Sweetheart"
Valentine's Day offers an opportunity to do something nice for others. Do you know someone who might be lonely or in need of some cheering up, perhaps an elderly neighbor or a distant relative? Make their day by sending them an anonymous "Secret Sweetheart Valentine" and continue to send them cards and notes the remainder of the year. Then present them with a small gift at the holidays as you reveal that you're the Secret Sweetheart. You're sure to put a smile on their face!
Act like a kid again
When it comes to friends and neighbors, forgo the expensive chocolates and instead buy the candied hearts you used to get as a child. Use a red ribbon to tie them up in small bundles and pass them out to your neighbors or co-workers. For an even bigger hit, tie an old fashioned, inexpensive child's Valentine cards to the beribboned bundle.
No matter what your budget dictates, put the right value on Valentine's Day by being smart with your money while still creating special memories for your family, friends and loved ones.